Episode Description
Enneagram Type 8s, called The Challenger, are all about strength and showing who’s in charge to reassure themselves that they don’t have a weak bone in their body. They often can’t admit to themselves how scared they really are of their buried weakness, and so they show up larger than life in nearly all situations hoping to leverage their power for the people they love. Famous examples include Steve Jobs, Chelsea Handler, MLK Jr., Donald Trump, Aretha Franklin, and Vladimir Putin.
In this episode, we explore the essence of the Type 8 and the insecurities and motivations that drive their every action and relationship. We walk you through the story of the Type 8’s life by looking at their journey through the Levels of Consciousness from their healthiest to their average to their most destructive ways of operating. We close the episode by offering a critical type-tailored practice to help 8s rise up in consciousness and be the best version of themselves.
This episode is designed to help Type 8s thrive in their personal and professional lives by fostering a deeper understanding of their insecurities and motivations. It’s also an invaluable resource for friends, partners, and colleagues of Type 8s who wish to better support and relate to them.
Podcast Hosts: Rasanath Das and Hari Prasada Das
Highlights
[1:20] The Essence Qualities of fortitude, aliveness, and majesty
[3:20] The larger than life presence of the Type 8
[5:00] The Basic Fear of being shut down and violated by others
[5:30] It’s a dog eat dog world out there. Kill or be killed.
[7:00] The example of Hari’s sister climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro when she was pregnant
[8:00] The Basic Desire to feel like a force in the world
[8:30] Creative Consciousness. Everything is bigger, including their hearts. The protective energy and the ability to take heat.
{12:00] The strength that comes from being able to embrace my feelings of weakness
[13:30] The insecurity that I don’t have enough strength to not feel weak at all
[14:00] Controlling Consciousness. The overcompensation to put on my armor and try to be stronger than others
[21:00] Destructive Consciousness. Intense suppression for the sake of strength. Everything is bigger, including destruction.
[22:30] Saddam Hussein as an example of a Destructive 8
[23:00] The practice to rise up the Levels of Consciousness. Become extremely aware of how you are trying to intimidate people
[24:00] The real strength of being my authentic self
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About the podcast: Two former monks, a former startup founder and CEO, and a former equity derivatives trader dive into how to be our best selves, free from the ego. Our egos are the identities we create for ourselves and wish the world to validate, but when we are not seen as we want to be, we feel insecure. This podcast lives at the intersection of leadership and spirituality. It will help you understand your ego and shed light on your inner world so that you can act with greater clarity, compassion, and the freedom to be your best self.